We're here for you

Research tells us over 70% of men visit porn sites at least once a month. For some, it can become a lifestyle that affects their relationships, sex life, and mental health. We also know that the number of men who buy sex / has a sex addiction has risen in Britain. Current research says 1 in 10 pay for sex. Many men find themselves trapped in patterns of sexual behaviour that do not satisfy, but that they struggle to leave behind. If you recognise this in yourself, then you are not alone. Help is available. Flint is a Luton based Christian charity that helps men who pay for sex to change habits. Developed by a dedicated team that includes a GP and trained counselors, our programme can help you to deal with shame, mend damaged relationships, and recover a healthy and fulfilling attitude to sex.


Non-judgemental

You are welcome and valued. Nobody will judge you for anything you may have done.

Supportive

Our team will listen to you and walk beside you on your journey.

Confidential

We operate with full confidentiality and complete discretion.

 

A conversation

An informal chat about your experiences

This initial conversation will help us to understand your experiences, get to know you and your story. From there we can work out how best to help, and which of our services will work best for you.

 

Walk and Talk

A five session programme (one session a week)

This course investigates addiction and self esteem, and is geared towards helping you find a balanced sexuality. This is done in a small group, we take up to 8 men on each course. There is a small charge of to help us cover cost. We never want money to stop someone accessing the course and getting help, please talk to us if money is a problem, we may be able to help. We also offer online courses.

 

Or One to One Mentoring

We assess the best way of helping you. Sometimes the best option may be a limited number of one to one mentoring with one of our team. We often use a Solution Focused approach but also have volunteers who can offer counselling sessions.

 

Beyond

Post Walk and Talk?

After you complete the course we have a number of options for ongoing support, we will talk you through these after the course.

To get started, send us an email. We'll get back to you with details of the programme and how we can help. Your information will be treated with complete confidentiality. You do not have to tell us your name, or any other details if you do not wish to at this stage. Do look at our FAQ page.